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How to WIN an argument Gracefully

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As young humans, we are often advised how to behave and what to wear; however, I noticed that they're aren't enough lessons on how to assert ourselves politely during an uncomfortable confrontation.  Unfortunately, this led me into countless situations where I would get emotionally overwhelmed and act out by yelling or insulting the person confronting me.   If I felt I was getting treated in a certain way, I wouldn't know how to address that problem or criticism calmly. I finally realized that when I would behave this way, my point and reason would be lost in the heat of the moment.  After years of not getting the results of my intentions met, I humbled myself and accepted that my emotions don't excuse poor behavioral reactions.  I learned throughout the years that the only way to make the world a better place is to teach people how to treat others by modeling healthier behavior.   It's impossible to offer our perspectives when we are aggressive towards our...